spoiler alert...eh, no one watches the bachelor anyway

according to the ny post, the identity of the the bachelor's paramour has been revealed!

for those of you who actually care, keep reading.

the ny post writes:

Naval officer Andy Baldwin has narrowed the field of women down to three lucky ladies, but one contestant, Tessa, 26, a social worker from San Francisco, had a few drinks the other night and spilled the beans to a Page Six spy. Tessa admitted she has won the competition and Baldwin's heart. "Apparently he proposes and she declines, but they are still very much together." A rep for the show didn't return calls.

hmm...so first of all, she admitted she "won". do you win at dating? no seriously. i'm asking. it's been so long since i've been on a real date that i forgot.

secondly, they describe it as a comptetition. and i'm not trying to negate that it is in fact a competition. but there's something strange about trying to find "true love" and "soul mates" and all that crap in something that is described as a competition.

but like i said, it's been so long since i've been on a date that i'd hate to eat my own words and go to one of these open casting calls. someone help me.